do you ever think “if i can just make it though these next few weeks, things will slow down and get back to normal?” i do, but now i am starting to think that there is no such thing as slowing down and going back to “normal.” fall is here and that means that halloween, thanksgiving and christmas/new year are just around the corner. this is the maddening season: obligations, parties, gifts, crafts, buying, cooking, going, doing…
i am trying to prioritize some “me time” in my days, which just really means that i struggle with feeling lazy when i decide to get a cup of coffee (the most incredibly large cup of coffee-cue mike myers voice, hello!
) at my local coffeehouse in between dropping off and picking up the boys from school, because i should be at home cleaning and cooking instead of visiting with my lovely neighborhood barista and reading the newspaper.
but, i’m trying not to be too hard on myself and remember that i can only do what i can do and that i need to make time to enjoy the boys and my home. i’m learning to say “no” to some obligations and to say “yes” to things that i want to do and to things that will make life easier and more enjoyable for me and my family.
here are some things i’m doing to make this maddening season a little less hectic (starting with that coffee on school days):
i accomplished one project, in that i think our halloween decorating is done. bats, tombstones, pumpkins and skulls are all placed strategically around our house and they boys are delighting in the season, which, really, is what it’s all about. bring on the spooky, i say. i’ll be leaving all the skulls out after halloween and incorporating them into the regular home decor. something else i don’t have to put up next year. i also especially love halloween because all the spiderwebs in my home the rest of the year look like very delicate, handmade-from-etsy, decorations. yay spiders and yay me for being too
lazy short to clean them!
jack and harry are happy we can still spend some time outside and that it’s not too cold yet. the little cat loves jack jack and lets him snuggle her and pack her around. she is so patient. i’m loving watching this special bond they have and i’m really having a hard time with the fact that we need to find a home for some of the stray cats that have come to live on our porch lately. maybe some cats will be a part of my holiday “giving.” watch out, peeps.
i also got my hair cut again. i’ve come to the realization that i am not good at doing my hair, especially now that it’s gotten much thicker and unwieldy after having the boys. i went back to my pixie cut and i’m way happier. i can just run my hands through it on the mornings i have to get the boys to school and i don’t look like the mom who just fell out of bed. even though, i am the mom who just fell out of bed. chalk up one for making a good hair decision and doing something for myself that i know would make life a little easier. it’s not the best picture, but hey, that’s what you get when i take a quick selfie just before i walk in to work.
oh, and a good friend of mine has started selling nail wraps, so i’m jumping on that bandwagon too, because a) no drying time, b) two week wear time, c) i like having my nails done and these are cheaper than going for a manicure and easier than me doing it myself and d) no nail polish smells, which drive my husband batty. it’s a win-win and i’ll talk about them more when i have given them a good trial run.
finally, here is a sneak peek of the boys’ halloween costumes. something i love is crafting, and i was thrilled when they asked for costumes i could make. harry’s is completely different and i’ll put them both up on the blog when i make some time to take pictures.
how do you deal with the “maddening season?” i’d love to hear your tips and tricks for making life easier and more enjoyable.